wisdom with age

ladies, I'd like to share a bit of insight I've uncovered with time.

A woman ceases to be magical and enrapturing to any man,
when she herself ceases to find joy, involvement, obsession and--yes--enrapturement in her OWN life;
and instead finds it in the lives of the men who love her.

Then she becomes, to those men, a bore and a banal distraction from the other thigns they'd much rather be doing. And she loses both their love and herself.

So, girls, always throw yourself into your own life. Then everything else will find you--not the other way around.